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                     We're all here for a very apparent reason. A deep love and understanding for all things that can be considered "retro" or "vintage". But what is it from those time periods long since past you can do without, don't agree with? Social standards you think are better off gone and dead?                   


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                     "Separate but equal."                   


8 I've been on a calendar, but I've never been on time 8

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                     Amongst a few other things, McCarthyism.                   


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                     "Can we just be friends."   :x  lol                   


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                     Polio...and Drug Propoganda films, like "Reefer Madness" which, without its intrinsic value as a side-splittingly hilarious cult classic, is absolutely preposterous and fabricated as an "educational" film.

     Believe it or not, I agree with most of the social customs and standards of the world back in the Good Old Days, and I'd be perfectly happy living with them.  In fact, I think that without many of these allegedly "outdated" values, we (especially in America) have lost our direction and sense of purpose.                   


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    Believe it or not, I agree with most of the social customs and standards of the world back in the Good Old Days, and I'd be perfectly happy living with them.  In fact, I think that without many of these allegedly "outdated" values, we (especially in America) have lost our direction and sense of purpose.
Well said, Buddy.  Try emulating those fine customs nowadays and one often ends up looking like an idiot because those values are so dead as to be completely foreign to most folks under 50, and probably a few over 50, as well.  I blame the baby Boomers for this, of course. :wink: But keep fighting the good fight.                   


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                     same here Buddy, and Marlowe.  I look around our society today, and it seems that what we are doing, just isn't working for a vast majority of us.  One looks back to the 40s-50s and things seems to be pretty good, and seemed to work really well, from the fashions to the way people treated on another.  Wish we could go back to that kind of society.                   


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                     Of course, it wasn't all great back in the "Good old days", which is what this thread is about, the not-so great things of yesterday.  Segregation, HUAC, Vietnam, etc.  I guess there was a trade-off, manners and common courtesy went out with common sense, even though society is better off without all that small-minded racism that was the downfall of the "Greatest Generation."
As for the "everyone had manners back then" to hear the old folks tell it, there were plenty of a$$hole$ to deal with, and that's even if you don't include Hitler and Stalin...                   


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                     I for one am glad that when I had an accident in the past I was picked up by an ambulance and taken to a hospital- something that my grandad couldn't as there was no NHS. And for that matter something that a large number of Americans can't do even now.

I'm also glad that I was able to go to university (only the second in my family after my mum who went as a mature student). Unless I had been very lucky I would have left school at 14.

I'm very glad that I'm not forced out of my job for being an active trade unionist... mind you people still are....

I'm also glad that women are no longer expected to marry the first fella she holds hand with.

There's probably more.. but equally there'll be things that I wished hadn't changed!                   


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                     YES, all these things are true.  I think we can all agree that there was NO period of time, where EVERYTHING was pie in the and just peachy, and not EVERYONE was like Carey Grant.  I suppose I was only referring to the positive things of that era.  Although, I am conscience of negative things that have transpired, I choose to focus on the positive things rather that the negative.  Gosh, forget I said anything.:blush:                   


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                     It's always good to ac-en-tu-ate the positive, sailor-man!!

Now you've will have me singing 'Be Like the Kettle and Sing' all evening!                   


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                     The widespread acceptance of ethnic/racial/religious bigotry as a societal norm.                   


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                     World War.                   


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                     the racist parts of Nancy Drew originals                   


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                     Tuna noodle casserole. The kind made with noodles, canned tuna, and cream of mushroom soup cooked into a mucousy mess and then potato chips crumpled on top.                   


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                     Oh my, Jay...  You just brought to mind a memory I thought was long forgotten:  the blasted tuna casserole.  The only difference was that my mom served it over toast and put peas in it.  No chips on top.  I still gag at the thought!  :?                   


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                     Like everyone else, the racial intolerance of the era. I don't know if roles played by Mantan Moreland, etc. were considered an "accurate" representation of all African Americans, but they certainly seemed to be accepted without much question.

Oh, and cooking with Spam. Sorry spam lovers.  big_smile

On the other hand, the broad representation of what was considered a "hero" was a heck of a lot more positive than it is today. Can anyone imagine trying to market Roy Rogers as a youth (or even adult) hero today? Roy never drank, swore or did much more than casually flirt with a "gal' in any of his movies. He always did what was right, occasionally fired a weapon in self-defence but never killed anyone. By past standards, perhaps a "tough to attain" ideal, but still something considered desireable. By modern standards, only worthy of ridicule.

I miss Roy. And the fact that sports heros were actually "working men". Sure, they deserved better treatment and salary than most of them got, but let's be honest, they made a living playing a game.                   


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                     Not too big on black face over here                   


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                     Pretty much all of the above. Education, healthcare, equal opportunities.

On a more mundane level - housework. I'm glad i can throw my washing in an automatic machine and that I don't have to scrub the stairs in the close till their white just to keep up my reputation.

It's easy to look back through rose tinted spectacles and the past always seems better than the present whether it's 50 years ago or 5. The reality is less pleasant though. Learn from the bad and uphold the good I suppose smile                   


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                     I think everybody's pretty much of a consensus that there have been vast social changes, largely for the better - racism and sexism is largely discouraged, or at least never practiced overtly.

But I've often wondered if it was ever possible to separate the positive social trends from what we obviously perceive at the negative ones - a "dumbing down" of society, and certainly a "ruding up"; a decline in manners and courtesy and social grace.

If seems to me that working people have suffered most of all, especially in places like Britain, where working class culture has been replaced by aggressive "ladism", and generally, where a sense of solidarity has been undermined, and working people in general are more atomised, socially.

A few years ago, I was working on a magazine article about the neighbourhood where I grew up here in Toronto - a working class suburb that my family came to almost 100 years ago. I found a forty-year run of a community newspaper, and was amazed at how coherent and engaged it all seemed - baseball teams and social events and local news on a block-by-block level. It was like a small town, but in the middle of a rapidly growing city. There was a social notice of my aunt Helen's wedding; here the story of a cab driver murdered on the job, with an appeal for funds for his family. That's all gone now, needless to say.

Of course, I can remember how casually racist my parents' generation could be, and how many strains of racism there were - my mother hated "cockneys", while there was still a remarkable incidence of anti-Catholicism. Social liberalism drove that sort of thing underground, and I don't recall the first black family on the street getting a bad reception - I certainly spent a lot of time playing on their lawn.

So was there a trade-off - we get to become a more equitable, just society at the loss of a good deal of manners and grace? It's a hard question to answer.

(Oh, and for the record, I'm unwilling to lump in HUAC and McCarthy in with a lot of the patent negatives - McCarthy was painted as a vulgar villain, and HUAC as a witch-hunt, but the fact was that there were Communists in important posts all over government, and Communism was - sorry folks - the enemy, any way you look at it. I'm certainly glad that Alger Hiss had his career stopped dead in its tracks, at least in government. Not that he was sent to the gulag - doesn't Bard College still have an Alger Hiss Professor Of Social Studies? Executing Ethel Rosenberg was an awful thing, but her husband was a spy, period. I don't agree with the death penalty, but it was the punishment for treason at the time. And I know how badly this is going to go down as I write this, but there it is.)                   


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                     All this talk about McCarthy reminds me of another great stride in human achievement that we've made since then...the attainment of true Freedom of Speech.  You could actually be brought to trial in those days (or, as in the case of Julius & Ethel Rosenberg, EXECUTED) just for saying something critical of our government.  We still don't have complete freedom without censorship and, alarmingly, we have a similar situation now when those who question the President's motives behind invading Iraq are branded as "unpatriotic," but at least there are staples of the media that are allowed to voice a different perspective on the matter and cannot be bought off by whoever is in power at any given time, and nobody is EXECUTED for sharing new ideas.                   


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                     Racism and sexism are still more than alive and well.

If you are raped or sexually harassed here you either 1)asked for it, 2) wanted it no matter what you said, or 3) are lying. And then there is number 4 - no one saw it - even if you were in a room full of people.

I managed to barely notice or understand racism til' I was 15. Lets just say I know it far, far, far too well now. Virginia is still a place where I like my father can have a klansman two inches in front of my face.

But at least I can sit where I want on the bus and drink water out of any fountain I want. It's segregation that is a bit more dead than racism.                   


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                     Begging to differ, Buddy, but Julius Rosenberg was executed for passing nuclear secrets to the Soviets, not for "saying something critical of our government". What he was doing went even further than doing something critical of the government - he was trying to bring it down. I don't agree with the death penalty, but let's call treason treason.                   


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Begging to differ, Buddy, but Julius Rosenberg was executed for passing nuclear secrets to the Soviets, not for "saying something critical of our government". What he was doing went even further than doing something critical of the government - he was trying to bring it down. I don't agree with the death penalty, but let's call treason treason.
I'm sure that treason was the pretext for their indictment, but have they ever actually found any proof of that?  And furthermore, okay, let's say Julius Rosenberg DID in fact perpetrate treason against the US government (we'll probably never know either way), but why did they then see fit to execute his wife as well?  The fact is, we live under a totalitarian government that has and forever will give us only the facts that they want us to know, while conveniently sweeping others under the rug.  How else do you explain the Kennedy assassination and subsequent cover-up?                   


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