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Whats your decade and why?

Hi, I am new here and thought I would open up a discussion to get to know people. My question is what is your decade? Or decades that you feel the most connected to, and why? When did it start? Do you have any explanations?

See me, I don't. I don’t have any "logical" explanation to why I feel like I don’t belong in this time period. I feel I was ripped from the 60's and plopped here in the present. I long and feel nostalgic for everything before 1970. ok 74 at the latest. My "home" decade is the 1960's, but I also am connected to the 20’ s-50 as well. The 70's are weird, sometimes i feel nostalgic sometimes I feel weird about it. I don’t know how to explain it. My parents have no idea why. They just tell me it’s an interest. Art is an interest; UFO’s are an interest, feeling nostalgic for a time i never lived in, that’s not an interest. Do any of you also have those longing feelings of the good ole days? I always get funny looks when i say "ahh this song brings me back" (referring to an oldies song) or something of that nature. I don’t really know why it started I just know it started somewhere around 3rd or 4th grade, or that’s when i realized my love for the 60's. But it didn’t really develop completely until 6th grade, and just grew from there.
   
The only explanation that makes sense to me is..reincarnation. Have any of you ever thought that perhaps you lived during the decade you feel so connected to?(well i think we carry with us the time period we were young adults with us to our next life) the same way an 80 year old would feel nostalgic for the time of their youth, just we are in a new life with the same feelings. a past lives forum I am actively a part of has many "retros" but they know about their past lives. I find this interesting how many people who don’t necessarily believe in reincarnation have the same feelings.

Throughout my life I have had memories and such that are not from this life, but most I just ignored at the beginning. But I still believed in reincarnation just in a sort of passing manner. It wasn’t until experiencing my first regression about 2 years ago that reincarnation became a large part of my life. I set out to regress to my life in the 60's, thinking of course that’s what I will go back to. a cool life, as a hippy, in California or something. But what I actually regressed to was something very different and not at all what I expected. I will give a short summary of the life I regressed to, of which I discovered facts and events over the course of the past 2 years. And I still haven’t regressed further than 1948. to my shock I was a woman! Took me some time to get over that.

I was born a in or around 1909, in a small town outside Pittsburgh PA*. My father died, or left before I was born, as I have no memory of him. My mother raised me alone. my grandparents lived with us for a time. I left home in 1926 as a teenager and headed to Pittsburgh. The next few years were probably the best of my life, I drank, I partied, I slept around. I am not sure whom I lived with in 1926-28,as I rarely regress to this time besides the occasional happy memories. (perhaps because that part of my life didn’t cause a lot of my pain, it was the later part of my life that did). I married a man named Charles c. 1929. I became pregnant soon after. I began an affair with another man named Richard soon after, or before my marriage to Charles. I had a daughter early 1930. I wasn’t close to her until later, at least 5 years. I continued the affair with Richard among others, although I feel I really loved Richard and wanted to be with him. I eventually lost contact with him in the 1940’s. Charles became an alcoholic and began to physically and on at least one occasion sexually abused me (I feel he emotionally abused me from early in our relationship). I feel I also was a drinker, and medication abuser.  I became ill in 1947-48 and was hospitalized. I think I was in and out until 1948-49 when I eventually died. I never found out many details of my death, I just know I was very sad and alone at the end, but I was ready.

Sorry for rambling on and on and I hope no one will take offense at my post, or judge me. (Sorry i really haven’t tested the waters so much, I just jumped right in, so im not sure of peoples reaction) I just will find it difficult to be discussing past decades and vintage things in general without me bringing up my past lives, so i wanted to see what everyone here thinks about the subject.

peace and love

-Brant


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66FordFalconClubWagon
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My retro sensibilities tend to be spread across three decades - 40s, 50s and 60s - and a slight bit into the 70s. Partly inspired by movies like American Grafitti, American Hot Wax and The Hollywood Knights, I was also influenced by my dad&#39;s love of cars, as well as my parents&#39; nostalgia for the music they grew up with, from the 50s and 60s. Except for the movies named, I can&#39;t say there&#39;s been any commercialism responsible for why I love what retro things that I do, but it is nice to buy a CD player that looks like something out of the 50s. With a Fender Telecaster, Stratocaster and Precision Bass in my small guitar arsenal, I can even enjoy the spirit of rock and roll, when I&#39;m playing music. [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif[/img]

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I used to be a steadfast ca. 1954 girl.  That was in high school, when I was a rockabilly.  College, with the moving and the lifestlye changes and the freshman 15 that caused me to sell most of my vintage clothes (and now that most of them would fit me again, I&#39;m kicking myself), made me change my mind.  I spend about a year in the mod 60&#39;s, then a couple in the more hippie 60&#39;s, untill this fall when I started eyeing 40&#39;s style platforms and full-fashioned stockings, my mouth practally watering.  Unfortunately, I don&#39;t have most of my old wordrobe anymore, and a lot of it wouldn&#39;t fit anymore anyway, but since around September I&#39;ve been picking up a few things here and there and though I only have enough clothes to really dress properly for a few days at a time with no repeats (or dipping into the jeans and vintage rock t-shirts, which I do sometimes, especially with school and all), I&#39;m happy to say that I seem to have re-learned how to dress myself.

The 60&#39;s will always be dear to me, and though I&#39;m glad that I&#39;m getting more into the 40&#39;s and 50&#39;s like I used to be (and, honestly, where the sexiest clothes are, not to mention about the most brilliant films ever made), I&#39;m glad I&#39;ve expanded my horizons to include the Victorian era (the hippies were into it--I guess that&#39;s how I came across it), as well as about the whole 20th century, and thanks to my studies in English lit, any time before that as well, such as taking a few things here and there from the Baroque period.  So I guess my decade is 900 AD to about 1983 (though we can really omit most of the 70&#39;s, it did have it&#39;s merits, and I don&#39;t know about you, but I will always love wearing my lace fingerless gloves and leggings to 80&#39;s music and &#036;2 drinks night at my favorite campus bar),  skipping most of the 80&#39;s and 90&#39;s and picking up again in about 2000 when I feel that rock and roll started not sucking for the frist time since the death of New Wave.

Anyway, to make a long story short, I don&#39;t think I can any longer pin down my decade.  I&#39;m all over the map most of the time, but I have trouble being now, which is I guess the point.  But if I had to pick one year for my style, it would be, at least at this point in my life, 1963, because the fit and flare dress, heels, and seemed stockings were still in, but so was nude lipstick (as well as red), ratted hair, tights, knee-high boots, and the mini dress, and I love all of the above (if it&#39;s tastefully done--preferably in dark colors).  If I could have the 50&#39;s and 60&#39;s at the same time, I would, but with 40&#39;s shoes.  For music, I might be more like 1968 or 69, because my hippie phase made me love the Summer of Love for its raw rock and roll with purpose, and that it something I will always love, no matter how dressy and non-hippie I look.  For that same reason I like some rockabilly as well as early punk rock.  For literature, I am eternally Victorian and Edwardian.  They just new how to do beautiful but wrong better than anyone else.

Oh, and Bret, I like your past life story.  [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif[/img]


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I seem to have various periods I always go back to and they are based upon my usual interests. 

1934-1945: Art Deco; "The Thin Man"; Swing Music, Cartoons; Screwball Comedies, etc.

1946-1953: Film Noir; Cold War History, Hudson automobiles, etc.

1954-1964: Mid-Century Modern architecture; Florida (Miami-Ft. Lauderdale) history; "Lounge" music; The "Rat Pack";  JFK&#39;s presidency; Cinemascope movies, etc.

1965-75: Detective shows; "Swinging London"; Star Trek; ITC TV shows.

*We also had this <a href="http://www.porthalcyon.net/community/index.php?showtopic=1955" target="_blank">topic</a> which covers similar territory.  It&#39;s good readin&#39;&#33;


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Aaah, some dear departed friends in that thread there... [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.gif[/img]

For myself, I&#39;d have to flub it and call 1946-1956 my "decade". The war&#39;s over, but we still have all the great prewar influences & music for a while. Then the New Look is in fashion and the music starts to rock (but not too much). Everything is optimistic and bright for the future, except for the Cold War drama.  I think I would have really felt at home in this decade.


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i&#39;m a fifties gal through and through, although some 40&#39;s fashions have wiggled their way into my wardrobe. but for boudoir wear, notheing beats the ultra-glam of the thirties&#33; but the fiftie are where my heart,soul, ears and lipstick reside&#33;


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Yepperz, this topic comes up regular like... but, is ever salient nonetheless. 

One year I was solidly planted in 1936, but generally (and this is since youth), I have bounced around in eras, sometimes within a given day.  Right now, I swing between the 1920&#39;s and 1950&#39;s/&#39;60&#39;s mostly. 

I think that my ideal world would be kind of like Disney&#39;s Magic Kingdom, with each era having it&#39;s own "land" (&#39;20&#39;s land, &#39;30&#39;s land, etc.), each very large - on up until the current time - and including a common area where people from all areas could mingle freely. 

Well, at least we have the common area:  The Present.

(heehee)


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